Dating someone who is “vanilla” or outside of “the community” is slightly discombobulating. It’s not her… It’s just that i’ve become accustomed to the way we do things in our little bdsm world. We have all manner of shortcuts and buzzwords. We disclose so much about ourselves up front. When someone meets me in that community, … Continue reading
The spawn moved out recently, so it was funny when i came across this post from April that was still stuck in my DRAFT file. i’m not sure why i didn’t post it when i wrote it. i miss these weird conversations in the bat-cave. Spawn: You should go to the store now. me: … Continue reading
i might buy a crimson cape … just to make my neck seem more naked when i unfasten its collar and slip it off my shoulders i might buy a crimson cape … just to feel its velvety warmth replaced with your cold steel and hungry mouth i might buy a crimson cape … just to soften the ground beneath my knees as … Continue reading
This past weekend, i was cleaning and i moved the kitchen storage unit in front of one of the windows to discover this poor fellow behind. Having been passed over for dinner, he was about the business of becoming a plant. His determination was admirable. i fished him out, handed him to K and pronounced … Continue reading
There is something beautiful in the human form, particularly in the naked female form. A discussion about possible photo scenes lead me to look through my stash of reclining nudes. my two favorite reclining nudes of all times are by Modigliani and Collins (below). i love the colors in both. i’m taken with the passion-drenched … Continue reading
Lord willin’ and the creek don’t rise, i’ll find myself in an interesting position tomorrow night. i’m psyched. The evening starts with a meet-n-greet on one side of town (not sure if i will attend that or not) and then the party moves to Princeton where i get to attend to a few things on … Continue reading
i’ve had this pic for a while … floating around on my computer. i’m not sure if i want to be this person or i want to take her. Something about it, though… lovely. White cotton, simple, innocent only not at all… just… sigh… the only thing missing? a good thrashing. i have a love-hate relationship with corsets. i’ve never been overly fond of … Continue reading
I’m not a fan of the baggy pants fad. Quite frankly, I’ve been waiting for it to pass. I can’t believe it hasn’t passed. Please, let it pass, let it pass! Very few men can pull it off and it sends a clear message that your business – whatever the hell it is – isn’t … Continue reading
In my ‘work life’ now, an end is coming. Following a short break, a whole new chapter will begin. I always wax poetic at these times. I miss the people I’ve come to know and enjoy, but I know that new folks will enter that arena soon enough and it will be not better, and … Continue reading
