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really love to taste her… vanilla
Music / Real life

really love to taste her… vanilla

Posted on August 4, 2015 by wawbat • Leave a comment

Dating someone who is “vanilla” or outside of “the community” is slightly discombobulating. It’s not her… It’s just that i’ve become accustomed to the way we do things in our little bdsm world. We have all manner of shortcuts and buzzwords. We disclose so much about ourselves up front. When someone meets me in that community, … Continue reading →

we fall through each other… we catch… we cling
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we fall through each other… we catch… we cling

Posted on July 29, 2015 by wawbat • Leave a comment

Polyamory is difficult for some folks to conceptualize and impossible for many to embrace. A poem was shared with me this morning and i sat with it for a moment and smiled… it is here (A New Constellation by Marge Piercy). Those of us within the poly community call our arrangements many things: tribe, family, nest, polycule. … Continue reading →

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It’s 1 degree fahrenheit… what a good day for an OUTing

Posted on January 22, 2014 by wawbat • Leave a comment

A few folks on the fet side of life know what i do in my ‘vanilla’ life. Fewer still know the name my parents gave me – well, that name and the one i married into.  Most folks on the fet side of life have just as much to lose as i do – by … Continue reading →

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The Light is On

Posted on September 9, 2012 by wawbat • Leave a comment

When my daughter was very young, the rule for special days… Christmas, Birthdays, etc… was… “You can’t wake up mommy and daddy until it is light outside.” Needless to say, this meant that my wee child would take position on the sofa or other perch near a window and watch as light would fill the … Continue reading →

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You’re gonna let it all hang out

Posted on August 4, 2012 by wawbat • Leave a comment

There is something beautiful in the human form, particularly in the naked female form.  A discussion about possible photo scenes lead me to look through my stash of reclining nudes. my two favorite reclining nudes of all times are by Modigliani and Collins (below). i love the colors in both. i’m taken with the passion-drenched … Continue reading →

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Items available for the (Columbus) Photo Shoot

Posted on June 28, 2012 by wawbat • Leave a comment

If you aren’t part of the Columbus Kinky Photo C0-op,  this will be meaningless to you (i’d guess) so skip it if it puzzles you  😉 For the Kinksters in front of (or behind) the camera, the following items are available for your use free of charge (if you’re not going to harm them in … Continue reading →

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I’m Only Sleeping

Posted on June 28, 2012 by wawbat • Leave a comment

Yes, i am alive. No, i am not blogging (here) much right now. A new set of work projects mean that my time is scarce and when something must give? This blog will be it! C’mon, would YOU sacrifice blogging or sex? blogging or work? blogging or sleep? Okay, okay, some of you would blog … Continue reading →

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